I recently began contributing to Adding Zest to Your Nest, a blog that explores women’s sexuality as Christians. If you’ve not had a chance to visit, please do.

In researching my upcoming blog post for Adding Zest, I found Be the Smart Wife, and promptly decided to add Carin Goldstein to my BFF list. Her blog’s subhead is: how to take care of yourself and your marriage without killing your husband.

What’s not to love about a woman who, in two minute video vignettes, addresses dilemmas such as

“WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU COME HOME TO THIS?” When you come home from an afternoon of errands, are you baffled by the fact that your husband is completely unaware of the disarray throughout the house?  If you find yourself biting your lip and trying oh so hard to not say “What the HELL is this?!?” then watch my video below and I will guide you to a muuuuuch better place:

“ARE YOU KIDDING??? I CAN’T BELIEVE HE’S STILL UPSET WITH ME!” Just when you thought the argument was over, you were wrong, wrong, wrong. How do you know this? Because your husband is acting as if you just ran over his cat and he wants little to nothing to do with you.Watch the video below to hear how we answered YOUR question on how to handle the above…

And there’s more…just visit her blog. You’ll laugh and learn.

Carin is a wife, a mother of two, and a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 10 years of experience. And she’s witty. And honest. And real.